80/20 rule: Distractions in Relationships

I was having a conversation with one of my friends, Tres Stamos, brilliant woman really and she told me about the 80/20 rule in regards to relationships. I am sure we’ve heard the “80/20 pareto rule” in terms of operations management but I am not here to dull you with all that.

She explained to me that the 80/20 rule is when we are in relationship, if its good, we tend to get up to 80% of our needs met but if someone else is around offering to give us the 20% of what we want or feel is missing, we tend to think all our needs can be met by the person giving us that 20%…..